relation prostitute - client is possible?

[sjeezman]

Sorry to do this in english.

Im really interested in the opions of the working girls here.

Have you ever fallen in love or been attracted to a client?

Is it possible?

How does the client know if she is really and honestly interested in that person?

 

[crissu]

Answer: How do you know your partner loves you?

[colorado rld]

Certo

[bubutz38]

Are you in love with an escort? Why are you asking this?

[sjeezman]

Answer: How do you know your partner loves you?

 

I dont know.

If he or she is honest. I you have deep caring conversations.

If you take him or her with all the flaws.

If the flaws dont seem like flaws but just little extra things to like and love.

What can be the sings that the prostitute really likes you.

If you pay for an hour and she stays with you for 4 hours talking? Is that a sign?

Or is that something that always happens.

[bubutz38]

Is she Corina?  

[sjeezman]

Are you in love with an escort? Why are you asking this?

i'm fascinated by the subject.

And truth be told, yes,i have been in love with one.

But things went south.

[sjeezman]

Is she Corina?

? no

im not romanian.

i just think this is the ideal place to ask.

[bubutz38]

Might be possible,  but is very hard. How do you manage the fact your girl is making sex with a lot of other mans?. Think about it. Probably you will end thinking what is difference between you and clients. I don't think you want this. 

[sjeezman]

i think the difference will lie in the deeper connection.

no? Sex is only one aspect of a relationship.

Prostitutes are so much more than just sexobject.

They  have feelings too. They feel lonely too. They want to be loved too. They want connections too.

 

If you really like/love the girl and she insists on keeping to do her job, than you got to make a solution together.

I believe if you like her, you will accept her as what she is and does.

 

It would be nice to hear some opinions  of the girls themselves.

But i understand that would be tricky for them.

Because they dont want to give strange or wrong signals to the clients.

But how do you know.

What if you are a foreigner like me and you go to romania.

Mayb they think i will never see this person again. But if they would feel a connection, who knows what would be possible then.

[sjeezman]

Is she Corina?

its you bubutz. you had me at "is she corina"

;-)

[picon]

Love is blind.

[sjeezman]

Love is blind.

please elaborate your opinion a bit.

 

They always say dont fall in love with a prostitute.

But they can fall in love also with a client no?

Not for his money,but for the way he talks and is.

or am i desillusional?

[bubutz38]

Better don't think about this. Find another woman. Trust me.  

[sjeezman]

Better don't think about this. Find another woman. Trust me.

why?

why cant this be done.

[bubutz38]

Imagine yourself reading customers' experience with your girl. Read about how nice she is doing CIM or anal sex or whatever your want.  Imagine customers writing "is clear she loves to fuck". Do you really want this? Shall I continue?

[sjeezman]

dont u believe that prostitutes also want someone who wants them for who they are? not for what they do?

[sjeezman]

how can you know if that is the case with you?

if she says to meet you outside her work?

of she let you stay longer?

Mayb she is affraid to take the first step.

Mayb she doubts your intentions.

[sjeezman]

im an idiot aren't i?

[naclait]

Right now you're about to do the same mistake I did. Everyone will tell you to quit and probably this will motivate you to try even harder.

You're not an idiot and if you want to listen I will tell you my 3 years story, maybe this will help.

[sjeezman]

sure.

write it down here.

[nobel]

not possible.cause it's impossible

[sjeezman]

can i ask also someting completely different.

its regarding money.

How "rich" is a romanian person.

Like how much money does a romanian person has on average on his/her bankaccount.

Like the girls.. do they make 5.000 euro a month?

how much does a normal romanian earns.

[bubutz38]

I say the same: don't even think about it. About 6 months ago I had the question as you. Answer is: big mistake.  If she is still sleeping with other for money, don't think about. Probably might be different after she quits prostitution, but I had no experience with this. 

[midas]

No! Just for the money !