relation prostitute - client is possible?

[sjeezman]

I say the same: don't even think about it. About 6 months ago I had the question as you. Answer is: big mistake.  If she is still sleeping with other for money, don't think about. Probably might be different after she quits prostitution, but I had no experience with this. 

mayb she doesnt see herself doing another job?

[naclait]

You're right, escorts womens are not sex objects and if you come from a family where your mother was physically abused you'll probably love womans even more.

 

For me it started without knowing that she was an escort, I found out 2 months after we decided to start a relationship and I decided to stay.

I loved that woman, she was smart, funny, kinky. We used to talk about all sorts of things from kinky stuff to how we can change the world and start our own business.

Due to the nature of her "job" she was open minded and we tried all kinds of stuff, sex was unbelievable.
We had a really intense and deep emotional connection and we decided to move together after 6 months.
And then everything started...

[naclait]

Now, before I tell you more about my relationship. Let me ask you as question: what do you expect from a relationship and did you talk with her about this? 

[nobel]

can i ask also someting completely different.

its regarding money.

How "rich" is a romanian person.

Like how much money does a romanian person has on average on his/her bankaccount.

Like the girls.. do they make 5.000 euro a month?

how much does a normal romanian earns.

We are very rich.

Our politicians are so rich that they use choppers not cars.

Their children are so rich that they drive Mercedes and BMW and all other brand of luxury cars.

We the people ,well we are not that rich.

Let's say the minimum wage is 200 $.

Yep....200.

So.....choppers-200 bucks....that's the difference.

You can imagine the size of the black market yourself.......

Like  Africa!!!

The only difference we don't have a jungle and we don't sell dead goats and hiena skins.

Well not yet

Maybe in 10 years.

[sjeezman]

We are very rich.

Our politicians are so rich that they use choppers not cars.

Their children are so rich that they drive Mercedes and BMW and all other brand of luxury cars.

We the people ,well we are not that rich.

Let's say the minimum wage is 200 $.

Yep....200.

So.....choppers-200 bucks....that's the difference.

You can imagine the size of the black market yourself.......

Like  Africa!!!

The only difference we don't have a jungle and we don't sell dead goats and hiena skins.

Well not yet

Maybe in 10 years.

200 dollars?

i heard an appartment is already rent of 2-300 euro in bucharest.

[naclait]

200 dollars?

i heard an appartment is already rent of 2-300 euro in bucharest.

You'll need 2 locations. One for her job and one for you2.

[nobel]

200 dollars?

i heard an appartment is already rent of 2-300 euro in bucharest.

From Feb 1 2017will be 1450 ron equivalent of 322 dollars.

 

That's what i said.....imagine the size of the black market and the black economy

[sjeezman]

Now, before I tell you more about my relationship. Let me ask you as question: what do you expect from a relationship and did you talk with her about this? 

please continue.

 

No i havent spoken to her about it.

I dont even know if it is possible.

She's romanian and im from west-europe.

Mayb she thinks it wont work.

But no guts no glory right?

mayb she can move to here or me to there.

That was one of my original questions. How can you know if she has a genuine intrest in you.

you tell me you met her and didnt know she was a prostitute.

I met her at her work, so thats already different.

[sjeezman]

From Feb 1 2017will be 1450 ron equivalent of 322 dollars.

 

That's what i said.....imagine the size of the black market and the black economy

how can people afford a house then or an appartment.

300 euro for rent is their entire income.

thats why i ask. the girls that rent an appartment for themselves + one for work.

they are considered rich then?

lets imagine they ask 300  ron for 1 hour a client.

lets say 5 clients a day  = 1500 ron a day

1500 * 30 days = 45.000 ron =10.000 euro a month.

am i missing something?

[nobel]

how can people afford a house then or an appartment.

300 euro for rent is their entire income.

thats why i ask. the girls that rent an appartment for themselves + one for work.

they are considered rich then?

lets imagine they ask 300  ron for 1 hour a client.

lets say 5 clients a day  = 1500 ron a day

1500 * 30 days = 45.000 ron =10.000 euro a month.

am i missing something?

i don't know the number of clients /day but 30 days clearly is not the case.

People can afford simple because nothing in this country is what it seems.......

[alexqwerty1234]

Sorry to do this in english.

Im really interested in the opions of the working girls here.

Have you ever fallen in love or been attracted to a client?

Is it possible?

How does the client know if she is really and honestly interested in that person?

 

Are you 12? Only teens believe in love and santa klaus

[nobel]

Are you 12? Only teens believe in love and santa klaus

E strain....nu stie .....alta planeta 

[naclait]

No i havent spoken to her about it.

First ask yourself what do you expect from a relationship, think hard about it, based on your previous relationships, it's about you...

Do you need affection? 

Do you want to sleep every night? 

How would you react when she can't pickup the phone because she has a client and you're having an emergency? Will you hate her for that?

 

But no guts no glory right?

 

You need guts, she's a free woman, you can't control her, you can't demand much, that's one thing you must accept. She doesn't need you and she'll probably live well and be happy on her own.

How's your guts now.

 

That was one of my original questions. How can you know if she has a genuine intrest in you.

you tell me you met her and didnt know she was a prostitute.

I met her at her work, so thats already different.

This is something you'll find out probably after one year, don't think about it... let things flow. 

[sjeezman]

mayb the illusion of interest is so good, or she is just so good at her job.

But whatever you pay at the end of the date she goes home.

No amount of money can buy real love.

[Vizitator sarlatanu]

ce zice astia aci  ba  ??

[Vizitator]

how can people afford a house then or an appartment.

300 euro for rent is their entire income.

thats why i ask. the girls that rent an appartment for themselves + one for work.

they are considered rich then?

lets imagine they ask 300  ron for 1 hour a client.

lets say 5 clients a day  = 1500 ron a day

1500 * 30 days = 45.000 ron =10.000 euro a month.

am i missing something?

Haha... You'd wish this HUGE amount of money. Truth is... never happens. It's impossible here. Period ! And yes, HERE things are not as it seems they SHOULD BE. They should be normal, but... they aren't....

[naclait]

mayb the illusion of interest is so good, or she is just so good at her job.

But whatever you pay at the end of the date she goes home.

No amount of money can buy real love.

Stop thinking about what she does, if that's a problem webchat is an alternative. 

[nobel]

 

No amount of money can buy real love.

   

[bubutz38]

How would you react when she can't pickup the phone because she has a client and you're having an emergency? Will you hate her for that?

 

 

 

 

That's the kind of problem I had as well. I realized she was not able to cancel a meeting if need her. I have the feeling he will have the same issue.

 

 

[naclait]

That's the kind of problem I had as well. I realized she was not able to cancel a meeting if need her. I have the feeling he will have the same issue.

 

 

Took my a while to accept that as well. For me was lack of affection and not sleeping together.

[sjeezman]

First ask yourself what do you expect from a relationship, think hard about it, based on your previous relationships, it's about you...

Do you need affection? 

Do you want to sleep every night? 

How would you react when she can't pickup the phone because she has a client and you're having an emergency? Will you hate her for that?

 

 

You need guts, she's a free woman, you can't control her, you can't demand much, that's one thing you must accept. She doesn't need you and she'll probably live well and be happy on her own.

How's your guts now.

 

This is something you'll find out probably after one year, don't think about it... let things flow. 

 

 

why one year? so keep being a client one year and then make a jump according to you?

 

What i want.

Well to be honest. I think i need affection.

I dont want to sleep every night with her.

Sometimes i just like more the talking and just being around her.

The feeling she gives me.

 

mayb i am the problem here?

Like you say, she doesnt need you,she will live happely after withouth me and just be fine.

Mayb i am to eager to wanting to connect to someone.

She's not the first prostitute i would fall in love for.

So mayb it is a problem i have.

That i am not ok with myself and keep falling for every girl like that based on a false relationship influenced by money.

Kinda lowlife.

[pornelia]

Sorry to do this in english.

Im really interested in the opions of the working girls here.

Have you ever fallen in love or been attracted to a client?

Is it possible?

How does the client know if she is really and honestly interested in that person?

she fuck you free of charges

[sjeezman]

Haha... You'd wish this HUGE amount of money. Truth is... never happens. It's impossible here. Period ! And yes, HERE things are not as it seems they SHOULD BE. They should be normal, but... they aren't....

what exactly is not what it seems then?

[sjeezman]

   

then she is not the right woman

[naclait]

why one year? so keep being a client one year and then make a jump according to you?

You don't have to be her client for an year, but you know... a relationship needs time. You'll get access to certain things in time.