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@mosu44: e sau nu locul, te ascult despre ce ai facut deja... si incep eu... (si eu sunt un mos... de 47) Sa trecem peste ce am facut ca sa o "cuceresc": - am "impartit"-o cu alt barbat pana am castigat eu... - am acceptat/incurajat iesirile ei "cu fetele" - chiar si la vestitele petreceri de 1/8 martie... - m-am certat cu _toti_ partenerii din firmele mele pentru ea Sa trecem peste ceea ce am facut ca sa fim impreuna: (cei cu ani la activ stiu...) Sa trecem peste faptul ca sunt aici pentru EA, nu pentru mine (despre asta am mai scris...) Cel mai important (si nu e un sacrificiu) este faptul ca mi-am insusit VISUL ei - de fiecare data! Si ce as face (mai mult decat atat)? As renunta la visul meu daca mi-ar cere-o! ... Azi m-au omorat subiectele de suflet!...

Eu cred ca aici se infiripa o noua idee de afacere: Doar Voi (voi Doamne ale Noptii, voi Vestale, voi Preotese ...) sunteti ESCORTE! Cu alte cuvinte puteti ESCORTA - de acasa la locul faptei si inapoi. In mod sigur celibatarii n-ar avea nevoie, dar noi restul... ne-ar prinde bine o acoperire oficiala! (un pret suplimentar bine justificat - pentru linistea conjugala...)

Apropos de iubire, copii si sotii: Un studiu (n-am mai cautat referinta...) spunea ca in caz de naufragiu, femeile isi salveaza cu precadere copiii, iar barbatii sotiile! Sincer, nu pot spune ce-as face (uneori simt invers, alteori, cand ma enerveaza, as naufragia-o chiar eu...)

E o chestiune veche de cand lumea, si nu va disparea orice-am face: - Ori creste si invata sa fie barbat (si eu - recunosc - mai invat inca...) - ori ajunge c...va tuturor So, in final, va fi cu happy end! http://fetishfurniture.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/2013-04-04_1914.png

Desi _stiu_ ca iubirea este _doar_ chimie, desi este evident rolul ei in supravietuire/inmultire/..., ca proces natural, de fiecare data cand: - imi sarut sotia cand ne revedem - adoarme unul din copii cu capul pe mine - imi simt sotia in lasandu-se pe mine dupa ce ne iubim - imi iese din maini ceva construit de mine ... realizez ca ratiunea trebuie sa se incline in fata iubirii

La Multi Ani, Multa Sanatate si Putere (de munca, de ... ) ... si sa traim si noi (bine) pe langa tine!... Incerc sa-ti ghicesc gusturile: Lili St. Cyr - cea mai "spumoasa" si inventiva stripteuza/pin-up-girl Brigitte Nielsen, intr-o fotografie premiata: cel mai "imbracat" (in atitudine) nud (nici nu putea fi altcineva decat Red Sonja) http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-JPYZ6afeMl4/UEp6VBitHoI/AAAAAAAABhw/QwS5JPQ1uGE/s1600/lili_st_cyr_111_jp.jpg https://nataliafadejeva.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/1766uw.jpg

Daca _ai_ varsta legala (poate de asta ai asteptat un an?) urmeaza sfaturile celei pe care ai pus ochii, si te va ghida ea pana "la intrare"... si dupa...

Citind aici, am simtit nevoia acuta de confirmare, si-atunci m-am intrebat: - Oare macar Eu sunt sanatos? Si toate vocile din capul meu au raspuns in cor: DA!(Da...da...a...) In alta ordine de idei: dupa ce m-am departit de prima sotie, am aflat prin ce cluburi a-nceput sa umble, ce chestii accepta sa faca - la "prima" intalnire, etc. Atunci am realizat ca limita de jos (ca la limbo dance - how low can you go?) depinde de partener, si nu de scara de valori interna...

Pentru ca eu sunt - cel putin aparent - un individ absolut banal, am intotdeauna o rezerva de anormalitate la indemana... Sau, cum spune Woody Allen: "whatever works" (merita vazut!)

A III-a zi fara cafea... beau miros, da' lucrez mai bine si mai mult... Mai tine minte cineva cum "innobilam" nechezolu?

La multi ani, multa sanatate, si putere sa strangi in brate tot ce-ti doresti! ... si sa nu te lase genunchii...

Cand prin WiFi veni virusu'

marginea patului mare si rotund

Poate parea ciudat, dar dupa 25 de ani de monogamie, merg la Doamnele Noptii pentru a aduce ceva mai bun in relatie. Tot ce caut este sa ma schimb pe mine pentru a o putea schimba si pe ea... Sper sa nu devina un mod de viata...

Salut, aveti loc si pentru pifani sau?... Daca da, intru si eu in joc (cred ca prima oara in viata - la propriu...) -> da am citit primele pagini, sper ca nu s-au schimbat regulile...

de ceva nou si incitant...

Saru'mana, e posibil sa fie vina noastra: multe calorifere electrice/AC-uri/whatnot... (nu lucrez la enel). La mine damage-ul e mai mare: server-e, lucrari deschise, etc. drept urmare ma protejez: UPS-uri, baterii mari, si laptop-uri... Iar filmele se vad mai bine de pe local... (cred ca suntem "vecini")

Pionier pe campiile Patriei! Am ajuns la birou cantand un cantec patriotic, iar azi voi fi fruntas!

De tigari m-am lasat, cafea beam 1l, acum o cana cand si cand... acum inteleg ce m-a adus aici: suma viciilor trebuie sa ramana constanta...

Sunt doua situatii: - nervii "instant" (nesimtitu' din trafic, copilu care ti-o tranteste, altu' care se crede destept...) Aici e mai simplu: ma dedublez, las sa treaca pe langa mine, dar incerc sa nu-mi ajunga la creierul mic... - ... si cand ajunge (cand te simti inundat de adrenalina): la mine, care am o imaginatie bogata, totul incepe cand simt adrenalina: in acel moment, in loc sa reactionez, construiesc planuri: ex: in trafic - stiu ce viteza am, masa mea si-a lui, si care manevra l-ar scoate de pe drum, sau ce obiecte din camera pot fi transformate in arme si care sunt mai accesibile, eventual traseul de exit... Cu toate aceste informatii crystal clear, continuu apoi in mod normal conversatia/traseul/orice faceam, in timp ce pulsul scade si adrenalina isi pierde efectul...

OK, pe strada te mai scoti - colega, "clienta", ... whatever... Da' cand te miroase de alt gel/parfum/body liquids (daca n-ai mai facut dus dupa...) ce-i poti spune? Ai fost la "squash" si-ai transpirat? Sau cand te'ntreaba dupa ce vii cu miscari noi "da' chestia asta cu limba cand ai invatat-o?" Din astea cum mai scapi?

Am dat de ceva prin strafundurile netului, sfaturile sunt pentru consoarte, dar ne privesc si pe noi... (mai ales pe noi cei de-aici! cititi cu atentie!) Daca am gresit cu copy&paste sau cu engleza, imi cer scuze anticipat, si promit ca o voi traduce... Stop believing that every man loves you simply because he says he does. When it's convenient for him, he acts like he does. Awards are given every year for the best actor/actress award. Just add his name to the nominations. Stop believing that you can change him... You can't. He has to change and want to change first and foremost. Stop thinking that because you caught him in a major lie and he cried and told you how much he loves you that he won't do it again, because he will. Stop trying to catch your man cheating when you know when you do catch him, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIM ANYWAY. So what's the purpose in knowing? At least ignorance truly is bliss. Stop busting out all the windows in his damn car just because you caught him cheating AGAIN. You're going to stay with him and now you have to drive him around until he gets his car fixed. Or you will end up "loaning" him the money to get it fixed, or helping him put plastic up to the windows until they are fixed. Stop lying to your girls about how wonderful he is. We already know he ain't nothing. More than likely he's already pushed up on one of them, but for your sake we keep quiet. If he's so wonderful we will see that even if you never say a word. Stop lying to yourself about how wonderful he is. Accept the fact that you love his trifling behind and keep it moving. Stop believing he's going to leave his wife for you. She's the wife for a reason and you're the other woman for a reason. Stop thinking that he's going to make you his wife. So what you've been with him 2,3,4,5 or more years. Once he's done playing with you he will take the next woman that he's dating and make her his wife in 6 months to a year, while you've wasted how many years trying to get wifey status? While you're doing so much for him trying to please him, he's doing all the things you wish he would do with another. Every time you take him back after you've caught him lying and cheating, he loses more respect for you. Get caught lying or cheating once and see how quick he leaves you without even considering taking you back, and have you replaced before you finish begging his forgiveness! Stop thinking that because the brother has money he's going to spend it on you. Get your own money then it won't matter if he does or doesn't. Stop thinking you're the main woman when if you really looked at all the signs and signals you would realize you're the other woman. Stop introducing every joker you meet to your kids. Even your kids will stop respecting you eventually. Stop giving more of yourself to a man than he's willing to give to you. And for goodness sake quit believing his lies of being hurt before so now he's afraid to trust again, which is why he just can't give of himself. Once again the best actor award goes to........ Alright ladies very important.... Stop just taking him at his word when he gives you some fantasy tale. Every now and then ask for proof. Be careful of the smoke screen that he will hit you with. He will catch an attitude, act insulted, might even pretend to be mad. It's all a smoke screen after all the theatrics still insist on the proof. For example, he hasn't called in 3 days because he was on the moon for work. A'ight. Insist on seeing something from the moon. Men will not respect us if we don't respect ourselves. They will use us up. They will tell us all we need to hear and feed on every insecurity and low self-esteem issue we've ever had, just to get what they want when they want it. Those are not the women they make their wives. Those are not the women they respect. A STRONG, CONFIDENT, SECURE WOMAN IS WHO THEY WILL MARRY AND WHOM THEY WILL RESPECT. REMEMBER TO KEEP IT REAL GIRLFRIENDS AND REMEMBER THESE WORDS. Sursa: health24.com Pe mine chiar m-a pus pe ganduri...

Sorry, am o problema in a pronunta anumite cuvinte... expresia Doamnei mele era (in original): "Ia mai cauta si alta pe care s-o futi ca mie mi-ajunge!" Na ca am scris'o!

OK, aici e simplu: de-a lungul anilor, mi-a spus de mai multe ori s-o ... pe alta ca ea n-are chef(*)!... Am ascultat-o! ======================= (*) in mod evident, in momentele in care nu aveam cum s-o fac, dar v-ati prins deja...

Multumesc, am aceeasi opinie despre psihologi, doar ca ei au un "MAVO-metru" mai bun ca becu' meu cu fire...